They are here to make both you and your partner think.


Use them at your own discretion and be prepared for a few surprises. I know I experienced some…


1  What was your first impression of me?

2  What’s your idea of a truly romantic evening?

3  If you could change three things about me what would they be?

4  If you could change three things about yourself what would they be?

5  What is your dream profession?

6  What is your dream place to visit?

7  Who is your dream celebrity to meet?

8  What are your three favorite body parts on me and why?

9  What is your favorite movie of all time?

10 Who is your favorite actor?



11 Who is your favorite actress?

12 What is your favorite fruit and favorite vegetable?

13 Tell me who is your favorite aunt and uncle and why?

14 Tell me who is your favorite cousin and why?

15 What is the first memory you have?

16 What is your earliest happy memory?

17 What is your earliest scary memory?

18 Who was your first crush and what was appealing about him or her?

19 Who was your first date and where did you go?

20 How have you coped with break-ups in the past?



21 Have you ever had a recurring dream? If so describe it to me.

22 Do you have any nightmares? If so what happens in them?

23 Do you remember any dreams you had as a kid?

24 What was your favorite TV show as a kid?

25 Who was your favorite singer as a kid?

26 What is the best decision you ever made?

27 What is your biggest regret?

28 What do you think makes a successful person successful?

29 If you won the lotto what are the first three things you would buy?

30 If you won the lotto would you continue working?



31 If your house was on fire and you could only take five things before leaving what would they be?

32 Tell me about your proudest moment.

33 Tell me about your most embarrassing moment.

34 Have I ever embarrassed you?

35 Who is your best friend and why?

36 Who is your worst friend and why?

37 Do you believe in ghosts?

38 Do you believe in heaven? Or in hell?

39 Do you believe in afterlife?

40 What is your favorite sweet food?



41 What is your favorite savory food?

42 What is your favorite flavor of ice cream?

43 How do you know when I am happy?

44 How do you know when I am angry?

45 If you could steal the wardrobe of any celebrity who would it be?

46 Can you remember your parents having any fights? If so what were they about?

47 Who are you closer to – your mom or your dad? Why?

48 Describe your parent’s marriage to me. What were the best parts and the worst bits about it?

49 What is your favorite sexual fantasy?

50 What is your all time favorite song?



51 What is your all time favorite book?

52 If a genie granted you three magic wishes, what would they be?

53 What upsets you most in our relationship?

54 What makes you feel happiest in our relationship?

55 How do think people perceive you? Do you think this perception is accurate?

56 Can you think of anything you wished for as a kid but were denied? What was it?

57 Do you have any needs that are not being met in your life? What can I do to meet those needs?

58 What is the most important thing money can do for you?

59 Who had control of the money when you were growing up?

60 Who do you feel responsible for in life?



61 When did you have your first kiss?

62 When did you lose your virginity?

63 How often do you think it’s normal to have sex?

64 Who taught you about the “birds and the bees? How old were you then?

65 How do you define love?

66 Have you ever questioned the existence of love?

67 When you talk about me to others what do you say?

68 When a conflict arises how do you react?

69 Does your family have any secrets it refuses to talk about?

70 What are you most ashamed of and why?



71 If you had one day left to live what would you do?

72 If you died today what would you want your final arrangements to be?

73 Do you feel you had enough education?

74 If you could go back to university what would you study?

75 If you found someone’s wallet what would you do with it?

76 If you found $1000 in an envelope what would you do with it?

77 If you gave money to charities which ones would you choose and why?

78 If you were in trouble who would you go to for advice?

79 What is the biggest obstacle you have faced in life? How did you overcome it?

80 If you could go back in time what period in history would you like to visit?



81 If you could go back in time what period of your own life would you like to revisit?

82 Who was the first important person who died in your life and how did you feel?

83 What animals do you like?

84 What animals don’t you like?

85 What is your favorite age to be and why?

86 If you could ask me one question what would it be?

87 Do you think men love differently than women?

88 When did you first realize you loved me?

89 What is the most important thing in your life and why?

90 How would you describe your moral values?



91 How do you think you teach children moral values?

92 Did you have any pets whilst growing up and if so, which was your favorite?

93 Is it ever acceptable to keep a secret and why?

94 What is the thing you fear the most?

95 What did you think the first time you met my mother and father?

96 What is most important in a marriage to you?

97 Have you ever stolen anything? If so, what was it?

98 Who do you believe is the dominant one in our relationship and why?

99 Do you masturbate and if so how often?

100 What is your favorite color?



101 What is your favorite drink?

102 What was your favorite subject back at school?

103 Where do you see yourself in five years?

104 Where do you see yourself in ten years?

105 Who is the person who has influenced your life the most?

106 What kinds of movies do you enjoy and why?

107 What kinds of sports do you enjoy and why?

108 What is the best gift you have ever gotten?

109 What is the craziest gift you have ever gotten?

110 If you had to describe yourself in three words what would they be?



111 If you had to describe me in three words what would they be?

112 If you could go back into time, what would you change?

113 Do you have any bad habits?

114 Are you a positive or negative person?

115 What makes you feel sad?

116 How do you feel about porn?

117 How much sleep do you need?

118 What are your strengths?

119 What are your weaknesses?

120 How do you think love should be shown?



121 Name one thing I do that makes you feel loved.

122 Name one thing I do that makes you feel unloved.

123 What do you enjoy doing with me?

124 How much time do you think couples should spend together?

125 What makes you feel secure in life?

126 What makes you feel insecure in life?

127 What have been your biggest struggles in life?

128 What can I do to help you with these struggles?

129 When was the last time you yelled at someone? Why? Did you later regret it?

130 What do you seek in a friend that you neither expect nor want in a lover?